Comments on: How to spot the difference between a healthy sex drive and dependence / addiction http://sexual-sanity.com/2007/09/how-to-spot-the-difference-between-a-healthy-sex-drive-and-dependence-addiction/ finding intimacy and freedom from pornography and sex addiction Sat, 04 Feb 2012 19:42:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Jackie http://sexual-sanity.com/2007/09/how-to-spot-the-difference-between-a-healthy-sex-drive-and-dependence-addiction/#comment-766 Jackie Thu, 07 Feb 2008 16:03:02 +0000 http://markbrouwer.com/?p=90#comment-766 My husband of 20 years, was an executive, and I found out he did prostitution, while he traveled for his job. At first I was very ignornant, and what I found out, kind of put me in denial... I made myself believe "he would never do that again", and I was very wrong....now I realize I must have been seeing the tip of the ice-berg, and it was just to shocking to absorb the whole truth. I divorced him, because I do not believe he can stop his addiction, or will even seek help...he is just too good at lying. He remarried and started that marriage with the same lies, he fed to me....I was a 2nd wife. He blamed it on the 1st wife... When I doubted his behavior, and could not put my finger on the reasons why he seemed fake, and odd in the way he communicated...he has every form of lying, and projecting, down to a science....he would make me doubt myself, and tell me and our children "your mother is insane". I would like to find out more about the Side behaviors... how they behave, when they are in the family "pretending"....that interest me, because I feel both myself and my adult children need to know and be in counseling. Do you have any information, on the way the "pretend" and lie.... while not doing the sex behind out backs, but are in a family setting, lying? I would like information on that side of his personality. Thank you, Jackie My husband of 20 years, was an executive, and I found out he did prostitution, while he traveled for his job. At first I was very ignornant, and what I found out, kind of put me in denial… I made myself believe “he would never do that again”, and I was very wrong….now I realize I must have been seeing the tip of the ice-berg, and it was just to shocking to absorb the whole truth.

I divorced him, because I do not believe he can stop his addiction, or will even seek help…he is just too good at lying. He remarried and started that marriage with the same lies, he fed to me….I was a 2nd wife. He blamed it on the 1st wife…

When I doubted his behavior, and could not put my finger on the reasons why he seemed fake, and odd in the way he communicated…he has every form of lying, and projecting, down to a science….he would make me doubt myself, and tell me and our children “your mother is insane”.

I would like to find out more about the Side behaviors… how they behave, when they are in the family “pretending”….that interest me, because I feel both myself and my adult children need to know and be in counseling.

Do you have any information, on the way the “pretend” and lie…. while not doing the sex behind out backs, but are in a family setting, lying? I would like information on that side of his personality.

Thank you,

Jackie

]]> By: Eric http://sexual-sanity.com/2007/09/how-to-spot-the-difference-between-a-healthy-sex-drive-and-dependence-addiction/#comment-765 Eric Mon, 19 Nov 2007 16:08:30 +0000 http://markbrouwer.com/?p=90#comment-765 <strong>Eric...</strong> Your site looks great! I have seen many other so-called sites and they have been far from good quality.Your site has all the key ingredients to pulling in visitors.... Eric…

Your site looks great! I have seen many other so-called sites and they have been far from good quality.Your site has all the key ingredients to pulling in visitors….

]]> By: 10th Step http://sexual-sanity.com/2007/09/how-to-spot-the-difference-between-a-healthy-sex-drive-and-dependence-addiction/#comment-764 10th Step Mon, 24 Sep 2007 19:10:25 +0000 http://markbrouwer.com/?p=90#comment-764 I just stumbled upon your website. I'm glad that you are here giving out information. I will be a frequent visitor. I just stumbled upon your website. I’m glad that you are here giving out information. I will be a frequent visitor.

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