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Hacking Recovery: How to Improve 12 Step Groups (part 2)

Hacking Recovery: How to Improve 12 Step Groups (part 2)

Why do 12-Step programs work? What makes them effective? If we can figure out why AA and the 12 Steps [...]

Oct 15, 2011     No Comments
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The all-important moment in recovery – when we decide

The all-important moment in recovery – when we decide

We all like having options. When we commit ourselves, we limit our choices. When we commit to recovery, we don’t [...]

Aug 5, 2011     No Comments
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How can you forgive your spouse in the aftermath of sexual betrayal?

How can you forgive your spouse in the aftermath of sexual betrayal?

In the process of recovering from sexual struggles, restoring relationships is vital … and hard. When sexual strugglers are married, [...]

Feb 3, 2011     7 Comments
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Noticing what you notice helps in recovery from sex or pornography addiction

Noticing what you notice helps in recovery from sex or pornography addiction

“What you see depends on what window you look out of.” I heard Lyle Schaller say this at a conference [...]

Jan 24, 2011     2 Comments
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Podcast Interview about Sexual Struggles and the Church

Podcast Interview about Sexual Struggles and the Church

Not long ago I was interviewed by Jeff Fisher from the PorntoPurity website. Jeff is a former pastor, recovering addict, [...]

Jan 14, 2011     1 Comment
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New book for pastors from Covenant Eyes

New book for pastors from Covenant Eyes

Internet Pornography: a Ministry Leaders Handbook With a chapter by yours truly Covenant Eyes has just put together a great [...]

Jan 3, 2011     No Comments
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What to do if you’re struggling to stay sober

How is your recovery going? Are you building ongoing, solid sobriety, or are you struggling with repeated relapses? Nobody does [...]

Jan 1, 2011     5 Comments
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The danger of putting spiritual leaders on pedestals – Part 2

The danger of putting spiritual leaders on pedestals – Part 2

Last week I wrote about the danger of people in churches projecting idealized images onto their pastors. This is not [...]

Dec 15, 2010     6 Comments
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