Six Signs of Sexual Insanity
Sex is a great servant, but a terrible master. Sex can bring pleasure, express love, build intimacy, and create life. But out of control, it can bring pain, express contempt, destroy intimacy, and even kill. Like any natural appetite, when [...]
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We are now offering our new 70-page ebook for free. Reclaiming Sexual Sanity offers a concise overview of what sexual addiction is and how to overcome it.
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Do this and your relationships will work 10 times better
Relating without manipulating All of us want better relationships. For many of us, addiction has created walls of distrust and [...]
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Personal Update: Where we go from here with sexualsanity.com and our recovery work
This year has been time of a major transition for our family. In June of last year, I started pastoring [...]
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Five things every recovering sex addict needs to know about fantasy
Many people live with heads full of fantasies. This is especially true of sex addicts. Some of these fantasies are [...]
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Codepedence is not just an issue for partners of addicts
Many of us struggle with codependency. When addiction is present in a relationship, the old model was that the addict [...]
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How can you forgive your spouse in the aftermath of sexual betrayal?
In the process of recovering from sexual struggles, restoring relationships is vital … and hard. When sexual strugglers are married, [...]
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Hacking Recovery: How to Improve 12 Step Groups (part 2)
Why do 12-Step programs work? What makes them effective? If we can figure out why AA and the 12 Steps [...]
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